So...can you believe that some people lie? It is true!!!! Sometimes people worry more about what you think than what you are worth as a friend. The truth is worth its weight in gold in any friendship. I have a friend...that used to be friends. Not following...me niether. I mean it is wierd how men can be friends without thier wives being friends ...right? So let me tell you the story. We (my husband and I) have been friends with another couple for some time.
Until.....all of the sudden she wasn't our friend. What???? So now it is her 50th birthday and I am supposed to care. Well I am not sure I do. Normally I would be the first to throw a party for her. But, not only does she not want a party...she doesn't want to be around any of our "normal" friendship ring. I don't know how to tell her husband...other than try and understand. Unfortunately I know he is the only one she talks to..and at work she throws me under the bus. I know that I can't...and wouldn't ask for his loyalty. ...but I don't need to be lied to by either of them. So...where is the line? I will for sure try to be the better person. I hope that I don't have to decide on the line. But, we all know that the day is coming. If if wasn't I wouldn't be blogging. I will keep you informed. I hope she comes around. My/Our friendship relies on it ...and unfortunately as rumor has it...so does my job.